The Vesper Journal

Minimal white bottles resting on soft cloth – the Vesper guide to choosing a lubricant
Water, Silicone or Hybrid? The Vesper Guide to Lubricant
Water-based, silicone, hybrid or oil? A calm, judgement-free guide to choosing the right lubricant for your body, your toys and the moment. Read more...
Understanding consent: the foundation of exploring together
Before trying anything new together, especially restraint or sensory play, start here: talking, trust and consent. Read more...
Understanding lubricants: a simple guide
Water-based, silicone-based or oil-based? Here's how to choose the right lubricant for you. Read more...
How to clean and care for intimate products
A little care goes a long way. How to clean, dry and store your intimate products so they stay beautiful for years. Read more...
Your first intimate product: where to start
Feeling curious but not sure where to begin? Here's a gentle, no-pressure guide to choosing your very first intimate product. Read more...